R.N.
Hi B.. I too am a "clean freak." I started using a cleaning lady a little over a year ago. For me I had to come to terms with the fact that noone can clean my house as good as I can. I think you trully have to live in a house to know how to clean it thoroughly.
Here is what has really worked for me: Once or twice a month I take the time to thoroughly clean one space or maybe dust blinds and door jambs. This seems to work really well for me. This way I know that all areas are getting a deep clean every 2 months or so. On the weeks where I have deep cleaned an area, I ask her to do something else for me such as clean the fridge or clean the inside of the windows etc...
What I love about having someone clean is that the whole house does get clean in one day, something I could not accomplish anymore.
Also when I first met my cleaning lady I walked through each room with her and asked her to run through what she would clean. Sounds a little crazy but it really worked.
Also communicating back with her has really helped to so she knows she has done a good job. And one more thing, I supply the cleaning supplies this way I know what she is using.
I think my gal is booked but just incase she isn't and you want to talk with her, her name is Vanessa ###-###-####.
I hope this helps you!