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I haven't traveled with the Advocate, but have with the Britax Marathon. It installs easily on the airplane - look for the lap belt instructions in the manual. It should also be easy in the other car - practice both lap/shoulder belt and LATCH installs before you go.
AS for getting it through the airport - if you're taking a stroller, put the seat in the stroller and sling or let your little one walk. You can also get a $20 metal luggage cart and bungee the seat to that!
The other option is a cheap Cosco Scenera for around $50 - it's much lighter, but is a cheap seat.