K.B.
My son was 5 y/o when he had his done. It was a rather quick recovery. Two weeks was totally normal and off all pain medication, back to school and play and full time life. One week wasn't bad either. He actually stopped taking the pain medication quickly b/c he told me it made him feel funny and he didn't like that. So Motrin only for the most part.
Don't let them give her anything blue or red right after surgery if at all possible. We did a blue ice pop thing and a red one and he had purple lips going home. I'm a single mom and couldn't get anyone to go with me...so here we are driving home, me driving him in the back seat. He kept falling asleep and I couldn't hear if he was breathing right or not and he had bluish purple lips the whole time!!! That drive was worse than surgery itself!!!
First few days we just layed around. First night I slept RIGHT by his side. He slept in a recliner chair alot. Fav. blanket and anything he asked for. It worked. I'd do it again because it helped sooo much. Sleep apnea is gone!