S.B.
I buy a turkey that already has the butter under the skin. I put it in the fridge 4 or 5 days prior so it can completely thaw. The day of, I take it out about 1 1/2 hours before I have to start roasting it. Take the bags of giblets out from the cavity, the neck is in the neck cavity. Rinse the turkey inside and out. Salt inside and out. Spray or coat the roasting rack with olive oil or pam spray and let the turkey rest there. If you will be using the giblets for stuffing or gravy or just to make stock with, rinse and boil with water, celery and and onion. Prepare the stuffing. If you plan on stuffing the bird, don't put the stuffing in until right before you are ready to cook it! I rub the outside of the turkery with olive oil, fresh garlic (minced or through a garlic press), fresh cracked pepper, fresh (or dried) sage, poultry seasoning (you can omit the sage if you use poutry seasoning, or just use a small amount of sage, and salt (you can use garlic salt instead of or in addition to regular salt. I mix it all together and brush or rub it all over the turkey.
Right before its time to put the tuekey in the oven, stuff it if you plan on doing so. Don't stuff it too full as it will expand while cooking. Then, put it in a pre-heated 500 degree oven for 30 minutes uncovered. Then, cover turkey with a foil tent and reduce heat to 350. Roast at this temp until done. You will need to use a thermometer, even if the turkey has a pop-up timer. Insert it into the breast or thigh before you put it in the oven. When I put the foil tent on, I also pour some chicken broth or the prepared stock into the bottom of the pan, it kind of creates a steaming effect with the tent. Plus, after an hour or so, you can use it to baste the turkey. I don't baste every 30 mins as I don't like to disturb it too much, but you can do it as often as you like.
When the thermometer is 2 or 3 degrees short of the "done" temp, remove the turkey from the oven and let stand, covered for 20 to 30 minutes before carving the bird. It will continue to cook and reach the proper temp. DO NOT REMOVE THE THERMOMETER OR THE POP UP TIMER UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO CARVE!! You will lose a lot of the juices that way!
If you aren't stuffing the bird, put the pan with stuffing in the oven about 30 minutes before the turkey is done. Same goes if you just have extra stuffing. If I have extra (and I always do), I mix the two together when I take the stuffing out of the bird and serve it in one dish.
Also, don't forget to boil the water for the mashed potatoes about an hour before the turkey is ready. It will take some time for the water to boil and cook the potatoes. Plus, you will need to mash them when they are done. It might take less time to cook if you are using less potatoes than I do, I usually do a 5 lb bag.
Also, right when I take the turkey out, I put in any other dishes that need to be cooked or re-heated...they usually take about 30 mins, which is about the time the turkey needs to stand. Then, my husband starts carving the turkey and I pop the rolls in the oven to heat them. With any luck, its all done about the same time and we can sit down to eat!
For side dishes, we stay pretty traditional with stuffing, mashed potatoes, yams (mashed or candied), brocoli casserole, gravy, cranberry sauce, rolls w/ butter and sometimes rutabegas, cole slaw and/or green bean casserole. Wine for the adults and juice or milk for the kids and YUMMY! Oh, and of course, pumpkin pie for dessert! Sometimes I make a pumpkin cheesecake and brownies, too. Depends on the people and how many we have!
Just remember to relax and have fun! Also, give yourself enough time to get it all done and to deal with any snags that might happen. If you start a little early and have a set back, you will still eat at a decent hour!
Good luck! Have fun!
Happy Thanksgiving!
S.