K.E.
Never had a pom, but smaller dogs tend to worse with young children than medium-sized or larger..... Scared of being stepped on, more nervous etc. I suggest looking at a more medium sized adult dog (puppies are much more mouthy) AND adopting through a rescue. While I love rescues anyway, here's a great part about them- you can foster animals before adopting them, so you can literally test-drive how well they fit into your life. You could even try a pom if there is one the rescue has found to be good with little ones! Good luck