Hi Simone,
It is very scary worrying about something we know little about and have no real power over. The recommendations seem reasonable. Little ones are most at risk. They put everything in their mouths and really can't be expected to follow good hygiene.
Some strains of influenza are more virulent than others. Like the Avian flu the initial outbreak often occurs in economically depressed areas where people and livestock live closely together. And yes, it is transmitted from animal to human and no, you cannot catch it from eating cooked meat. When this new flu infects an individual who is cocomittantly infected with a human influenza the two strains can combine and mutate. The animal flu becomes able to spread from human to human. These are how pandemics occur.
The CDC follows patterns which helps it determine if the flu virus has mutated. In the case of the swine flu all indications are that it has. The glimmer of hope is that frequently after the virus mutates it is often attenuated and thus decreased severity of symptoms are present. This also seems to be the case with swine flu as most of the people now getting the illness are having milder cases.
I would reinforce keeping away from indoor playgrounds at this time but try not to panic. If your daughter is not in daycare, you already have a huge advantage. Watch out for shopping carts as well. As you know, baby will chew on the handle and anyway certainly the hands will be on the cart and then in the mouth.
If you have known outbreaks in your community, the more public places you go the more opportunity to become infected.
One thing I would add is if you or your daughter or anyone in your household becomes sick with fever and other flulike symptoms (cough, sore throat, body aches, chills, nausea, vomiting, headache) then go to your physican or emergency room asap. There is a small window of opportunity after the onset of symptoms when taking Tamiflu can significantly reduce the severity of the infection. If there is no fever (greater than 100) do not worry about influenza. Fever is always a hallmark to influenza.
Best Wishes,
J. L.