S.N.
A.,
Congrats! A child wanting to be adopted by their step-parent who is always there for the good and the bad is a huge deal. You've probably got a bit of a road ahead of you though. I've done a lot of research on the subject, because I'm looking ot adopt my step-son. You will need an attorney, and I reccomend one that specializes in family law. There will have to be a termination of rights of the non-custodial parent. Usually there is home observation done by dhs, but sometimes that is waived in the case of step-parent adoption assuming that the everyone in the home has been living in a family unit for a minimum of 1 to 2 years. And then there's getting all the papers drawn up, going to court, do you want a new birth certificate for the child reflecting the new changes of parent, any kind of name changes you or she would want, such as last name, etc. It's kind of a long drawn out process, I haven't made it through it yet, but we're working towards it at the moment. I wish you luck and hope that this has helped you out some. Good luck and congrats!
S.