Wow, there are some pretty heated remarks to your post. Honestly, some of the responses rather offended me. I like the way you stated your concern, you want consistency, yet you do feel bad for the teacher's situation. As a teacher myself, I can tell you that we do NOT like to be out. We love our kids and know that it's best for them if we are there. It's hard being out for a day or more because yes, we do have to retrain a bit and review when we get back. I can assure you that if this is something that is a major issue, your child's teacher is doing everything possible to make sure her kids get the best sub possible. We love our students and do everything possible for them to succeed. Also, I know in my school, if a teacher is out for an extended period of time such as a medical injury or pregnancy, they go to certain subs. They will go to that certified list, they will find someone they know best, and really trust that can handle taking over while the teacher deals with personal stuff. The teacher will probably provide the plans for the sub and if not, her team will step in and help. The principal will also really be monitoring the situation too because he/she is also wanting the best education for the class during this tough time. They will try not to switch subs much and keep it as stable as possible.
As much as we love our students, family does come first. I have had a parent go to the principal on me before over being out and that's just wrong- come to me. State your concerns with the teacher. I have missed some thanks to 2 kiddos having swine flu for a week at a time, it's not something I can really prevent. I'm now totally paranoid to be sick or for my kids to be sick because I don't want someone in the admin office. If I'm at work sick that's not best for my kids either- exposing them, plus probably not at my best teaching wise. Now, it's different if someone is abusing their absences and regularly taking off for long weekends or vacations. We have to get our personal days approved by our principal. They are limited to 2, outside of that we get docked and that's no fun so who wants to do that if they don't really have too.
Now, as far as the it's our state dollars comment from someone, my goodness. We LOVE our job, we love our kids, and we are there for our parents. Yes, your state dollars to go towards are check but that does not give anyone the right to dictate our lives or the lives of our students. Yes, speak up for your child, it's your job as a parent to be their advocate. I can assure you that I am fighting for my students everyday, advocating for what's best for them. I am a parent too and I will step in if there is an issue with a teacher, but with respect and always go to the teacher first. I would tread lightly, but still express your concerns to the teacher. If it doesn't improve with the homework, then go to the principal. I do like the idea of outside tutoring too. Since you were concerned, you might even set up a meals list with other parents or some kind of restaurant gift card collection to help during this tough time. A basket of magazines, massage, cards from the kids, whatever, to lighten the stress & show that the class misses her.
Lastly, yes, I TOTALLY understand your concern and from a parent point of view, I would feel the same. It's a tough situation for all. I would hate to be in your situation, just continue to work with your child at home. Maybe you could volunteer in the class to help out the subs or help out the teacher with the little tasks that she's having trouble keeping up with during this time. (ie) bulletin boards, games, copies, class parties, filing, etc...
I hope I haven't sounded harsh. It wasn't about you or your post, it was mostly about people thinking you should switch teachers, gripe to the principal, or demand stuff because of their tax dollars. Have a little heart people- cancer! My goodness- let's just make her feel worse!