One thing I will point out is that no one here except Texans can answer your question correctly.
I worked with Habitat for Humanity in a Texas town and Texas has completely different laws pertaining to housing than anywhere else is the USA> due to how they were purchased long long ago.
When I was working with the Director of that office her laws about the new home owners mortgages was vastly different. They had to figure in so many other things when it came to the price they figured for their Habitat homes.
In our Habitat we had many homes donated to us, left to us when an older person died, and we only rehabbed them. We'd strip them down to the studs and re do all the insulation and subfloors and from there up and in. Our insurance companies always insured them as new homes because there was very very little of the original structure left at the sale.
We kept track of every expense and when we were done we sold the house to the assigned family for what we had in it. We didn't add anything on for profit.
The director in Texas tried to explain it to me that there were so many taxes and fees that it often cost them $15K just to get the paperwork done on the homes and they had to add all that in.
So please call a local realtor.
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Tomorrow. You need to call a Realtor to come in and give you a value on your home. For what they believe it will sell for as is. They will give you a list of improvements you will have to do to it to make it sellable.
My sister was told she needed to take down her rooster border and to make her kitchen more neutral. She took it down and put up another. The Realtor came back and told her to remove that border too. She told her it made the house look dated and that having border in the kitchen would keep it from selling. No matter what else she did to it, border is old fashioned and will keep a house from selling.
She told them they needed to update their countertops. They didn't want to remodel the kitchen and spend $25K. They wanted to keep their money and sell the house too. When the house was inspected the inspector found water damage. My brother in laws shower was leaking under the slab. They had to pay for that repair. That couple did back out of their contract because they said if that needed repairs they were afraid that there would be other plumbing issues.
She ended up selling the house for a couple thousand less than what they'd paid for it. They'd been in it a few years too so they did have some money left after they paid off the note. That all went on the down payment for the next one.
A friend of mine had a gorgeous 5 bedroom 2 story home with huge rooms and 3 1/2 bathrooms. She had a dark green accent wall in her kitchen and the bedrooms had different colors on the walls. The carpet throughout was one color, laid when the house was built.
The realtor told them for their house to sell at any profit they needed to repaint the whole house AND they had to put down new carpet. The Realtor picked out the colors and the carpet. They sold their house right at what they paid for it but if they hadn't had the new carpet and paint it would have sold for about $20K less.
In many homes there are repairs that must be done.
Houses aren't selling for what they're worth right now. I have a friend in Branson who paid nearly $300K for her 2800 sq. ft home on the side of a cliff. It has a weight room, media room, an office that is 1/4 of the downstairs, and more.
They went to refinance through the Obama thing where they could get their house payment reduced drastically. It went from $1975 per month down to around $800 per month. Guess how much her home is valued at right now....$65K. They paid over $300K for it and it's only worth $65K now.
That's why you need to have a Realtor come in and evaluate your home. An outsider's look at what it is actually worth. You might be surprised at the selling price they put on it. Hopefully it won't be lower than you paid for it.
I don't say this to be mean but I do say it because no one is getting more than they paid for their house and they haven't in years. The housing market is so low, the buyers are the ones getting the phenomenal deals.
If the Realtor gives you a list of things that make your home worth less you have to sit down with your husband and decide. Do you want to spend the money to do all the superficial pretty things that makes your home more visually appealing or not.
If you are like my friend that had to repaint every wall to all one color and you have to do new flooring and who knows what they'll dislike in the kitchen and bathrooms, etc...you might want to sell it for less instead of having to go get a home loan and do all those improvements then it still might not sell for what you want.
I hope you listen to the Realtor. If you don't like what that one said you can always call another company, in fact you could call several and have them come on different days. To see if they all find the same problems or if they are all over the page. Then you can see your home through the eyes of a professional who would come in the door with prospective buyers to see what they would be trying to sell.