Seeking Guidance About Pregnancy

Hi J.,
It sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now. As a pro-life Mom I am actually going to present this to you in a "neutral way" You said, " I dont believe in abortions but he wants me to get one...Im afraid he will leave us" Think about what you just said. Who is more important to you? Your baby? or your boyfriend? Would you abort your baby just so you could stay with your boyfriend? What are your priorities? I know that is a dramatic question...however really, if you really think your boyfriend would leave you over this he doesnt sound like the kind of man who could be a good Daddy. J., I have four kids and we are far from wealthy. It just seems to work itself out. There is help out there for people who honestly need it. There is no shame in using food stamps, WIC or any of that if it is an honest need.
If you truly feel like you cannot take on the care of a second child, please consider other options such as adoption.
You and your babies are in my prayers. Please take care of yourself

hi i have a 2 1/2 year old and a 1 year old when my son was 8 months old i found out i was pregnant again my husband told me the same thing you need to have an abortion we cant have it we dont have money for an other baby i like you dont belive in them but i said ok made an app to get it and for some reason the same day they cancled on me telling me the dr could'nt come in so... i toke it as a sing of god telling me no and now i have a cute 1 year old son who i look at everyday and cant belive i was going to get rid of him but let me tell you everything will be ok somehow you just do it :) but i hope you make the right choice do what you want to do what feel's right good luck!!!:)

please J. find it your heart on what to do!!! if you need to find adoption or just tell him will find a way!!! I have four kids and there is a way, friends parents church and goverement help!!

depending on how supportive your family is and how strong you are emotionally adoption is always an option. You won't have the guilt of going through an abortion and you know your baby will find a loving home that can support a child. i am an adopted child and my mom runs a non-profit adoption agency in chino. Adoptions Unlimited (AUI) and they can also help you a little during the pregnancy. if you do decide to keep the baby there are so many services for struggling families. you just need to look in your community. WIC is an obvious. Church may be able to help with some services as well.
God BLess
C.

I think that u should keep the baby because if you have an abortion you will regret it the rest of your life. Keep in mind that a child is a blessing from god. If your boyfriend loves you he should also love the baby is his blood. You might struggle @ first but you will get through. Give your baby a chance to live.