J.J.
I LOVED our post partum doula so much. Her name is Glyol Pannbecci and her number is ###-###-####. She taught me so much (i was clueless also) and was so loving and patient. She took wonderful care of me and the baby - cooked for me, took our dogs for walks, taught me how to change, bathe, nurse the baby. We now have a beautiful, happy, healthy 1 year old and i attribute a lot of that to the week she spent with us. If you meet with her, tell her Jen and Pete referred you (we had a very nice relationship.) And in terms of questions, just tell her what is important to you (helping to figure out sleep schedule, learning to breast feed, helping your husband figure it all out... a lot of doulas ignore the dads...etc.) But the most important thing, i think, is that you feel a connection with whoever it is. Good Luck! You are about to have a wonderful time!