M.L.
My son needs to get bloodwork on a regular basis and in the beginning,it took 4 of us to hold him down (2 of the lab techs as well as my husband and myself). It was horrible for all involved. I have tried many things. Try having him drink a lot of water the day before and that morning so it makes the veins plunp. I've used "Emla" cream, perscribed by his doctor to numb the area, but the cream is very expensive and it made the area cold. The lab techs said it is better when the area is warm, so I've tried a hot facecloth, but that was only okay. Now I rub some "biofreeze" which is a muscle rub similar to ben gay, around the area and then wipe it off right before the blood draw.
Good Luck,
M.