S., I totally understand how frustrating it can be trying to get help for your child, and it seems like the world is against you. I find myself crying every time I make a phone call reaching out for help and I hit another wall. Most of them just don't take our insurance, and we have Blue Cross Blue Shield which is pretty popular. What's weird is that a third party provides and takes care of all of our mental health benefits. I've been saying lately that there really needs to be some type of online network just for parents to find help for their children (psychology, psychiatry, counseling). The most helpful resource for me has been mothers I know who have been through similar things with their children. They refer me to good doctors and give me advice. Thank God for them! My son recently got diagnosed with anxiety and ADHD after seeing a neurologist. I was told by a therapist to get my son a diagnosis from the neurologist, then my insurance would cover the right kind of therapy he needs. Thankfully, I also have a close friend who teaches special ed in a school system (not ours). She knows all the right avenues to go through and tells me what legally they have to do. I don't know how different it is in PA. I'm in New Jersey, and our school system has a Child Study Team (with psychiatrists, etc.) that does evaluations and such. My son does not have any academic problems, but still needs help within the school because of social and behavioral problems. When I met with the principal last school year, he suggested we might put together a 504 Plan for my son. Then, when we went to the neurologist, he also recommended a 504 plan (and he put it on the form he wrote up with the diagnosis and suggestions). I don't know if 504 plans are just in NJ or not, but you should definitely look into it. Because we already have the diagnosis, my son does not need to be evaluated by the Child Study Team, which will move things along more quickly. I tried calling the principal over the summer, after seeing the neurologist. I left him a message asking for the phone number to the child study team. When he didn't get back to me, I went online and got the number, address, and email myself. I e-mailed the director of the CST (I CC'd the principal so he would know what was happening too). Without any details, I explained that we saw a neurologist privately and got a diagnosis, that the principal and neuro. had suggested a 504 plan, and that we would need to have it in place before the start of the new school year to help my son. If he hadn't gotten right back to me, I would have wrote a more detailed letter and sent it certified mail (then, they can't say they didn't receive it). He told me to contact the principal and he would set up the meeting for the 504 plan. Thankfully, the principal got right back to me too, and things are on their way (hopefully)! Legally, once you request something, they have a certain amount of time to do something about it. Make a friend in the PA school system! A 504 plan is something that was originally designed to help people who have special needs get jobs, but it is now being used in the schools to help accommodate the physical, mental, or academic needs of students to assure better success in their education. An IEP may be similar and more detailed, but either way, you definitely have legal rights. Be firm (yet nice, of course) when demanding the help that your son needs. Unfortunately, the school systems are probably overwhelmed with all the things they need to do, so if you are not very assertive (yet nice), it may be easier for them to busy themselves with all the other stuff they are required to do. Please, message me if you have any questions or just need to talk about it. Let me know how everything goes. I hope you get everything worked out before the school year starts. God bless you and your family!