Recommendations for a Divorce Lawyer in Wichita Ks Needed

Updated on October 01, 2010
V.S. asks from Wichita, KS
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I need to find a divorce lawyer and would love to hear some recommendations from other women in the Wichita, Ks. area that have received fair service. I have never had to hire a lawyer for anything before, but I know I will be served divorce papers very soon and he wants absolutely everything and has a cut-throat lawyer that he attends AA meetings with. We've been married over 30 years and this will probably be a contested divorce since he wants it all. I don't want to end up with nothing less than my fair share, but lawyers are expensive and I don't want to waste money on an attorney that are only looking at me as a paycheck. Please??? Any help out there???

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L.P.

answers from Wichita on

V.,

Knute Fraser has been our attorney for 20 years, he took care of my husbands mess after his divorce, had an ex that took him to court for everything until he found Knute. His Phone number is ###-###-####, he will do a good job for you!

I used Kathleen Reeves for my divorce and she was excellent too, I don't have her phone number handy, but know she is still in Wichita.

If you go to Knute, you can tell him that I recommended him to you! I hope everything works out for you, I know it is important to get a good attorney and I do know that these two are great!

L. Pratt

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S.

answers from St. Louis on

Another source might be the Al-Anon group in your area. Those meetings might benefit you and also give you an opening to find an attorney that is familiar with both drunks and the pitfalls of recovery. Even though everyone wants to feel they are 'unique' - especially alcoholics - there are many ways that alcoholics are alike. Knowing how they are alike will help both you and your attorney. That also applies to the 'enablers' that live with them for years. Can't hurt to try and you could use the help, too. Al-Anon teaches you how to act instead of re-act and helps you recover from the situation you have been living in. It is not a 'blame game' to see who wins and who loses --- hopefully, everyone will win.

BTW - AA teaches that no one should make a major decision for at least one year after drying out. That includes marriage, divorce and affairs. I'm trying not to judge but it sounds like his new playmate is leading him down the wrong path and his sponsor is falling down on the job.

Hang in there. There is life after AA! Get any and all help you can to understand both what is happening and yourself. Do what is best for you and it will be what is best for the others in your life. Protect yourself legally and emotionally the best way you can.

It has been 25 years but at one time I was where you are. You will survive and be happy again!

S.

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L.Y.

answers from Springfield on

It might be a long shot, but if you have a women's victim shelter in Wichita, call them to see if they can offer assistance or a few names to call. I have found that my family dr is a good resource also.
Good luck

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R.Y.

answers from Wichita on

paula kidd casey, or elaine reddick. both very good but not cheap. if you want out with anything you have to put up the fight. money is a huge deal, no way around that. I've been on the wrong side of both of these ladies and about half won after 3 years of battle. Paula though will not waste your time.

Good Luck to you, R.

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D.R.

answers from Kansas City on

Hi V., I do not know of any lawyers in the Wichita area but I just wanted to say that I am so sorry you are going through this. You commit your whole life to your family and then to have it end up like this. Just know that even though you do not know us, there are women out here praying for you!

Best of luck to you.

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C.E.

answers from Lawrence on

File first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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V.G.

answers from Wichita on

beall & mitchell
my daughter has terry beall n seems to be really happy with him
allied building suite 150 355 n waco
###-###-####

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V.G.

answers from St. Louis on

I am sooooo sorry. Please understand that it is his problem that he did not feel he deserved you! Thank you for being a school nurse and bringing comfort to the little ones. Now it is time to comfort you. Watch out for your vulnerability!

I suggest you select an attorney in "Martindale-Hubbell". It is a national rating service based on years of practice, ranking and so on. Also you might find more problem solving in the Family Life Events area at: http://www.prepaidlegal.com/info/goods
I appreciate your pro-active posture instead of playing the victim. Remember to forgive him for his treachery, forgive yourself for your feelings. You might need help/support/counseling to get beyond this "valley".
At our age we have extra needs so get these professionally addressed and tell your attorney you need "JUSTICE"! Best wishes and keep your head UP.

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C.C.

answers from Wichita on

Hi, V.. It's been awhile since I've had to do anything regarding a lawyer, but I have used Morris Birch several times. So has my husband and my brother. My brother's wife walked out and he was served with divorce papers. In the papers, she listed EVERYTHING that she was coming to get the following Saturday. This was on Monday. I had him call Morris, and he stopped that nonsense quickly. As I said, it's been awhile, but you might give him a call. And from my understanding, Kansas is a women'a state and your husband may have to pay for your divorce. Ask Morris. Good luck, my dear!

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E.H.

answers from Kansas City on

SIgn up for divorcecare.org and find a support group near you. This is a all faith based program that helps with al areas of seperation and divorce. I am going thru a VERY messy one right now. My soon to be ex is an attorney so it is really bad and getting very expensive. Make sure that you protect yourself. Hiring any attorney is going to be expensive 100-300 per hour based on their rates. If you can prove that he is having an affair it would benefit you. Mine jsut kidnapped on of my kids over the summer for 9 weeks and left me with a 7month old at home.
Know that God sees everything and make sure that you take the high road and do the right thing even if he is not! Best of luck and email me if you have any questions. ____@____.com

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V.S.

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DON'T let him file first if you can help it... this will put you on the defensive until it is all over. I have been in that situation for 20 months, and it is a terrible place to be with so little justice truly being served... doesn't matter how smart or right you are.

Call the local Bar Assoc. ASAP. I spent a ton of $$$ before finally calling the Pres of the JoCo Bar and getting HER (Jean Wise, great lady) recommendation! Tom Sullivan is the best, most honest, strong, trustworthy attny I've found here, and he may have some suggestions for you for Wichita(his office #: ###-###-####.)

Also, read your local family guidelines just so that you KNOW your rights. Be strong, but ask for help.

I will pray for courage and wisdom for you... may God bless you and your family.

May

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K.B.

answers from Wichita on

Good Morning V., I am so very sorry for what you are going through. Praying for you. I don't really know if this lawyer does Divorce case, but he is very good. He may be able to steer you in the right direction. He is Christian also. J. Joseph Weber, ###-###-####) 727 N. Waco Ave. Joe helped our son & his wife years ago.

I just called my neighbor..lol She used Jennifer A. Wagle
218 N. Mosley. ###-###-#### Jennifer's Asst name is Crosby Jones. They helped in Custody & visitation, child support. She said either one would do a great job. She wasn't getting a divorce though. Ms Wagles husband is also an attorney.

God Bless you V., hold your head up Lady, you will be awesomely fine. I will pray for your peace to over flow, strength to walk this path with dignity, respect and victory. Keep in touch ok! I live in Benton east of Wichita.

K. Nana of 5
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N.W.

answers from Wichita on

You should contact Jennifer Wagle at Cleary Soderberg Wagle & West.

She is a Wichita KS Divorce lawyer. 154 North Emporia Wichita, KS 67202

A lot of women in Wichita have used the firm over the years. They do mediation, adoption, and did very well for representing me in my divorce. The main office number is ###-###-####.

The website is http://cswwlaw.com for more information. The office is down near the Intrust arena (north a couple of blocks).

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