T.C.
Hi L.,
I really didn't get much help from the books (sorry). I sat in a bookstore one day for *3 hours* and read through so many different books.
So many of them said things that just didn't apply to me or my child, and so many others disagreed with each other: I just got confused!
I ended up going to a Mom who had potty trained her 5 kids before each of them turned 3, and did whatever she told me to do. That was much more helpful (and successful!)
Good luck.
T