This depends on which part of Tampa your husband is working (North or South) and if you want to be in the city or in the suburbs. Land O Lakes and Lutz both have had a lot of growth in the past few years, and I don't know much about them except they are family friendly and are toward North Tampa. If you want to be in the city and South Tampa, Westshore, Beach Park, Davis Islands are all really nice. But very pricey to live there. I live just over the bridge to the west in Clearwater. About 30 minutes to downtown Tampa. There are a lot of nice communities over this way if your husband doesn't mind a commute: Clearwater, Largo, Seminole, St. Petersburg, Palm Harbor. But like I said, it would be a bit of a commute especially during rush hour. Another really nice community is Westchase. Very family friendly, and easy to get to North or South Tampa, but your still not going to be 10 minutes away.
There is a lot to love about living here. Beaches, if you guys are sports fans we have a baseball and football team, Busch Gardens, Lowry Park zoo, and much more. The only thing I don't like is we don't really have seasons. My sister and I joke the seasons we have are hot and hotter. LOL. No snow, no beautiful fall leaves turning color. Warm years it doesn't get below 50. And cold years really only dip into the 30's. And it doesn't last long. You will get cool days in October, November, December, but those are just days here and there and there have been plenty of Christmas's I had long sleeves on and it was too hot. January, February will be your cold months, by March it's usually warm again. But many family friendly areas and lots to do :)