A.P.
In regards to your credit, if you are not going to make any major purchases (i.e. another house/boat/RV) dont worry so much about it especially if you are going to continue paying on your home & credit cards (if you have any) that will still show well for credit if you decide to purchase a car. You should however inquire on how long it will show on your credit bureau and if it will reflect you and your, assuming, husbands reports. If you are going to go short sale I would stop paying now. Its a waste BUT you may be held liable for a portion of the remaining mortgage in a short sale. Sometimes you can negotiate with the bank aswell. I would def meet with a few realtors and ask plenty of questions, dont settle until you feel you have all the information you need. The internet is a great source aswell.