Personal Bubbles - Am I Wierd

Updated on November 27, 2012
C.Z. asks from Manning, IA
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Ok so I just answered another question about hugging and it got me thinking. I always thought I was weird for this so here it goes.

1) I CANNOT AND WILL NOT fall asleep facing someone (breathing on my face will make me mad actually)
2) I cannot stick my head under the shower. To wash my face I have to use my hands to get my face wet and then quickly wipe it off! Ok that one is just one of those weird space issues.
3)Kisses- well unless there is a reason you will not get one. Bf gets a few but usually he turns away and says not right now if you get the point.

So what weird things get to you? Innanimate or living!

ETA soft touching drives me looney. I hate it but I do it to bf's back every night. Kids can kiss me all they want and it doesnt bother me but let an adult and i will go crazy.

What can I do next?

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L.U.

answers from Seattle on

I hate it when my husband wants to spoon and then his HOT BREATH is on my back....in...out...in...out...in...out....ARGH!
Oh yeah...I HATE IT when dogs lick me. BLEH. Or they put their nose on my lap and hot breath all over me...ick.

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R.R.

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I can't sleep facing my hubby either. It makes me feel smothered. my head under the shower doesn't bother me, but I just need to say "HUH?" about ladies take a bath (so only sluts take showers???) - I've never heard that one. And also never heard that sticking your head under the shower causes hair loss.

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L.B.

answers from New York on

I can't stand it when a stranger stands too close to me when I am in line at a store.

I can't stand the feel of some fabrics, such as microfiber and other cheap materials. It gives me the whillies when it touches my skin.

I can't stand the texture of oatmeal when cooked for cereal - I have tried to eat it and it reminds me of vomit and makes me want to vomit.

I can't stand to be near someone that has B.O -

I can't tolerate being poked at - when my husband playfully grabs at me or tries to tickle me - I want to scream "get away from me'

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

Once I had kids, my "personal" bubble weirdness things, is eradicated!
Not much phases me.

But, when I am sitting in the family room doing whatever... I don't like people too close to me. I like to just sit BY myself... and so often I will sit in a whole other chair, just to myself.
I like space around me, not all crowded onto a couch, for example.
But then my kids will come and "attack" me and both sit on me at the same time. LOL they know this about me.

-I like to stick my face under the shower, so refreshing!
I like cooler or coldish type showers. It is hot here!

- I'm not a big kisser either.

- I'm not real into massages! Most people are. I am not. My Husband thinks I'm weird for that one.
Oh but I give massages, my Hubby and daughter find it so relaxing.

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C.B.

answers from Las Vegas on

No a lot of people including me do not put hands on there face. Hands have oil in them and can give you acne. I will not let anyone put hands on my face..
I do not put my head under a shower ether it causes hair loss. I will also not take just a shower,, "something for men.. Lady's need to take a bath first.. .. So you look normal to me... I also have so many other little things that will make me mad if people do like eating off of my plate. looking at me cross eyed. the list goes on... You Do You no mater what people say.... :)..>>Melissa J.> The soft rubbing (1) word loath... Sends me bananas like it is disrespectful to me some how. ...
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S.E.

answers from Philadelphia on

I cannot fall asleep facing close. I hate breathing air some one has just exhaled...

Carrie B. is quirkier than you.... if it doesn't interfere with your life move on.

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M.P.

answers from Green Bay on

See through stairs!!! (The stairs with out the backs)...I am afraid of heights and seeing myself go up is NOT my cup of tea!! :-)

Also, TOENAILS...my husband will run his big toenail up my leg and that drives me absolutely BONKERS (and NOT in a good way)...ugh - makes me shiver just thinking about it!!!

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D.K.

answers from Sioux City on

Text messages! Call me or don't bother. I won't answer texts. I don't like spooning and I can't stand someone breathing on me either. I like sitting by myself for the most part because other's don't sit still. I HATE TV noise! I enjoy a good movie once in awhile but I don't like the TV constantly on.

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L.L.

answers from Topeka on

Don't drink for my cup or anyone elses (children)
Brush your teeth before sex n kissing
Don't like drips of sweat when having sex drip on me
Must have my window cracked in car on my side
tight clothing is annoying
like the massages just don't like to give them don't ask me to kiss your feet you can have it with mine tho

M.P.

answers from Minneapolis on

Hate anyone having to have a hand on me when sleeping. Restless legs, Have to have my legs free of lots of blankets, and a fan on at night. Drives my husband crazy and that's why we rarely sleep in the same room at night.

People trying to pick something off me with out telling me first. Like a hair, or fuzz especially from my back. I really dont like people up in my space.

Dogs licking my feet or toes. I dont mind the normal dogs, but if they mess with my feet it drives me kooky.

The feeling of yarn or knitted material just out of the wash and going into the dryer. It gives me the willies so bad (like the feeling of nails on a chalkboard) that I make my husband put that in the dry for me.

going over bridges, I am fine as long as people are not yelling LOOK AT THAT LOOK AT THAT... or screaming or laughing or making lots of noise in general. I wont look down or into the horizon often if I dont have too.

I got over halitosis, BO, and farts because I faced reality and realized that everyone has that trouble in their life some time or other. It its CHRONIC then it bugs me, cause they are not doing anything about it. Also those things can indicate they are very sick as well. Cancer, and other illness can cause these issues. Those people likely already know they have the problem and its a very socially hard thing to deal with. I try to pretend it doesnt bother me, but if its too much to handle I just quietly move off till I get some fresh air and come back.

D.H.

answers from New York on

Halitosis...in a salesman! I wanted to run screaming from the "Genius" at the Apple store. Come on, do you really have to promote the stereotype of the nerd that much, Apple? Didn't buy anything that day.

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Z.A.

answers from Milwaukee on

I hate it when people invade my space,I feel like I can't breathe!

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J.O.

answers from Detroit on

I can only sleep facing the wall. Can't stand any touching/kissing form an adult. So you weird? Nope. I get what you are saying. I thought I was weird.

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