M.O.
Diane,
I agree with you that there is some real junk out there. It has been my experience that the "pretty" pencils - pictures, foil, etc. are usually cheap and not worth the money. I buy a large package of standard yellow #2 pencils and then send the 12 or so requested, rubber banded together, on the first day of school. This year they are Dixon brand. I also buy bulk scotch tape (from Office Depot or the like) and only send to school what they need. We use a lot of scotch tape around our house for crafts and presents.
Remember, you only should be sending in the amount of supplies requested. If it doesn't say a "package" then only send in the 12 requested - buy in bulk. We are also reusing our "fiskar scissors" from last year too.
I disagree with sending less than what is requested by the teachers. (Just my 2 cents.) I realize that many of the supplies are "pooled", so my child may not get "her" scissors, pencils, etc. But I believe the teachers are already working with so little supplies, I am willing to contribute extra whenever needed for my child's education. To me it's not worth skimping on essentials or cheap tissues for the classroom. Let's face it - if your kid is doing their classroom work do you want them getting a "cheap" pencil that keeps breaking? Do you want them wiping their nose with hard, scratchy tissue paper when they already have a sore, runny nose in the winter? I guess for me it's a karma thing...give more now in hopes other people do too.
If you're really worried about how much you're spending on school supplies, go for the bulk package DURING the year, so you have it for next fall. You know you're going to be asked for some simple supplies over and over again. Or you can look at next year's supply list now and get an idea of what you should be stockpiling for next year as it goes on sale.
Good luck!