P.R.
I tend to be generous with babysitters bc in the grand scheme, a little extra usually means a lot to them while it's usually not a big swing factor in how much the overall outing cost me. Typically... (We don't go out much...) So if you like this sitter and will want her back and to do a good job, I think you're right to not want to be cheap. I'm amazed a jr high girl can handle that many when they are so young... I think slightly less than typical for each is plenty generous though. I'd almost say increase your hourly rate by 50% -75% and give it all to your regular sitter and let her sort it out between them. I think the 50% vs 75% is how much the friend is benefitting you vs the sitter. Does it give you a lot of piece of mind that there will be two of them? If so, then more towards 75%. If you think she'd be tired after the 10 hours but your kids would be happy and fine and the friend is really mainly for your sitter's benefit and you couldn't care less if the friend came or not, I'd go more towards the 50%. I always take into account how much the sitter is kind of doing me a favor vs happy to have the work...