Parinoid of Health and Human Services?

Alright, because I didn't agree with the way these simple divorce forms were worded, my hubby gets the other ones that talk about joint custoday and who will have him when and what not. Now we agreed on a simpler way by the fact I have him during the day and pick up at night just before bedtime espeicaly during school times.. Seeing as I would try and get a job at night. Well really I don't know if I will get a decent job at night around here that isn't part time for the time I need to have it, and with seeing very little of my son when he starts going to school, never the less., we made this agreement. Now he saying how he doesn't want to get these Health and human services involved in it all we have our agreement, if we fill out this application to whom he suppose to stay with and what not, hubby says they can come and just take him if hes with the wrong parent during the other parents time to have him. Like if some one called it in that he had our son while I was suppose to have him, they could just come and take him.

I don't know if any of that is true or not, but hes like you even have to register with them if you start dating some one so they can do backup check and what not on them. I really don't know if any of this is true but hes all parinod that we go though all the legaity of the joint custody stuff and that if we slip up with having the wong person having our son at that wong time he can be taken away or something to that extent. He doesn't want them involved in anyway because he don't trust them. Hes seen what they can do with his ex wifes kids and what not, but yeah, I don't know. Is any of this true, or is he blowing out though his ears?