J.H.
Hello K.. My husband and I just PCS'd from Whiteman, MO after spending 5 and 4 years at that base respectively. I didn't like it there, personally, but some people do. The base is out in the country, pretty much by itself. The 2 towns nearby have some things to do, but all the good restaurants and the mall are 45 minutes away in Independence or Columbia. If you like fishing, hunting and camping, the area is perfect for you. There are tons of places to do that nearby or the Lake of the Ozarks are about 3 hours away. Warrensburg is the town near Whiteman, about 8 miles and its a college town, so there are some bars and clubs if you are into that as well. Unfortunately I can't tell you much about schools cause my daughter is just now 2, so I never needed them there.
I was in Security Forces and I hated the job at that base, and then as a dependent, I was very bored there. All the good stuff was too far of a drive to do very often with gas prices so high. My husband didn't care for the squadron either, but he did enjoy the area for all the great fishing, boating and hunting.
Base housing is not bad. Before we left, they were building a whole new neighborhood with 4 and 5 bedroom homes and recently remodeled some of the older housing.
Anyway if you have any questions about the area, feel free to e-mail me. I'll be more than happy to answer any questions I can!