K.M.
I agree with J., the solid cribs and ones that turn into toddler beds are great! I love ours, my only complaint with it is because it doesn’t slide down I have a REALLY hard time getting my son in it when he is sleeping with out waking him up. I am short (5'3) and can’t reach smoothly all the way down (even worse since we had to lower the mattress), it was painful getting him in and out of bed after my c-section but I still don’t think I would trade it. As for changing tables we bought a playpen with a changing table and it has been wonderful! we were able to put it in a convienent location (the living room) so we have more room in his room for more important things and now that he's bigger he loves the playpen part too. So for the same price we got two for one.
For us the nursery must have was a big comfy chair! It matches his room and is comfy enough to kick back in and cuddle while reading a book or middle of the night feedings, I originally had a rocking chair but due to the c-section I found it really hard to get comfortable in it with him. We got ours at goodwill for $40 and it was the BEST purchase we made!
I’m sorry your on best rest, that’s really hard, I was too the last two weeks of my pregnancy and hated depending on my husband for everything! I just wanted to make sure the house was perfect and everything was ready for the little guy!
Good Luck!