Night Terrors, but Not Really?

Updated on December 03, 2007
S.L. asks from Lakeside, CA
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I have a daycare child that is worrying her mom. She wakes up crying in the night but it's not exactly night terrors. She had those whens he was young so we did the research. Instead of being the same time every night, this child is waking crying at various times and by the time the mom goes to the room she's already back to sleep. Sometimes she'll be sitting up and crying but not awake. She isn't teething.

During the day she is the happiest child. She's always full of smiles and gets very excited about things. She can get grumpy and sometimes cry over every little thing like any 2 year old. But if she is really in a bad way she is tired and will fall right to sleep. Lately, she has been so tired she has fell asleep even before lunch and has ended up sleeping twice like she did over a year ago.

Her mom say's she's been doing this for about 3 weeks. Could it be a combination of things? The change in the seasons, the time change and she was sick for awhile during this time.

I'm not sure if I can do anything during the day to help. Does anyone have any ideas?

S.

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So What Happened?

It seems like things have evened out. This girls mom called her doctor and they said that if she is struggling with something in her dream that she needs to work it out without mom coming in. Otherwise, she will just keep calling for mommy. So mom tried not going in for a night and she only cried once for a little bit and the next night was the same. Thanks for the help and suggestions. I'm still upping the calcium and I'm also trying to increase the kids large muscle activities during the day to make sure she has reason to be normally tired at night. I can't wait until it's spring again!

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M.A.

answers from Kansas City on

Hi Suzi,

My 3 years old does that when she is very tired or when she was playing with other kids for too long (what makes her tired), she seems to dream about things that happened during the day (me first, it's mine,he took it, I want it, etc) , I think that she should try letting him rest and may be taking a nap or quiet time during the day and make sure he goes to sleep before he gets too tired.
Hope it helps,
Mariana Abadie
www.MykidsFirst.com

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A.B.

answers from Kansas City on

A friend of mine had this problem with her two year old, and they finally traced it to a child at daycare. Apparently the other child would cry and cry and cry at naptime for an hour or so. Not sure why no one did anything about it. It must have traumatized him because when that child left daycare, he immediately stopped the night terror behavior. Don't know if that helps, but I know my son is very sensitive to other children being upset, and if he were exposed to that, he would be completely freaked out.

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J.L.

answers from Kansas City on

Tell the childs Mom to play soft music in her room at night. The music shouild be soft instrumental, flute or strings, etc.

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K.B.

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This may sound strange but she might be going through a growth spurt. I could always tell when my son was going through a growth spurt. His sleeping patterns changed and he just acted out of sorts, he would wake up in the middle of the night crying too.

What I found worked was a good warm bath before bed, and a rub down after his bath. I would give him 1/2 a dose of tyenol before bed.

I really don't think there's much you can do during the day, except trying keep her on a regular napping schedule.

Best of luck

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