E.S.
Hello I am a Aunt and I spend my time with my Nephews and Nieces by taking them to the park or play in the backyard. I would suggest to get some board games if you don't have any got to the dollar store and get some coloring supplies. Very reasonable price there.
We would play ball or run around at the park. If it is cold and raining you can do arts and crafts stuff together.
Especially at the age of 9 they rather play video games. Try to interest them in doing stuff together instead of seperately.
Thank you
Liz