E.,
I wanted to tell you to keep your chin up. A lot of women are going thru what you are going thru. Some days are good and some days are bad - and then it seems to get worse. Try not to let your emotions get the best of you. Keep cool - even in the heat of "battle" because it's best for the whole situation. I know there are times when I could do unspeakable things to my ex but I try to remind myself that he's my ex and I'm tied to him - like it or not. And thank God he's my ex.
Hang in there. My number is ###-###-####. I'm in Dallas - just moved. Call me if you need to vent or just grab some coffee. I've been thru 2 court battles already - and maybe one more before it's all done. I could give you some advice if you need someone to bounce ideas off of. I've almost heard it all.
D.