Good girl! Us mamas have to take the reins and keep our families safe!
Check out thriftyfun.com. I got my recipe for homemade laundry detergent from there years ago, and it's awesome. I can make roughly 16 gallons of safe, excellent detergent for less than $10--safe for babies, no silica's or perfumes and it works really great. Also, I've posted my skin oil recipe there for an all purpose moisturizer that works great too...I'm trying to find a good recipe for homemade shampoo using yucca or soapwort--naturally soapy plants. However, there's also some possibilities with homemade soaps from coconut oil or olive oil...let me know if you find something really good and I'll do the same!
Oh--check out earthclinic.com for all kinds of good advice on natural stuff--I've used that site for years also and it's really helpful.
Best wishes and blessings