W.M.
Congrats! I had a completely natural birth in a hospital 4 months ago. The key is to communicate prior to the delivery. Have a birth plan. Show it to your doctor/midwife, bring it with you, and have your partner be your advocate. I told my husband I could not be trusted when I was in that much pain, so he nor anyone else was to ask me any questions about rating my pain or if I wanted anything. Best wishes!