D.G.
Any chance of having it early and making it a Holloween Birthday with costumes. Keep the food simple but quirky like hot dog mummies with blood punch and have it at a time that is off mealtime so you dont have to feed everybody. You can invite everyone "after dinner" and they wont expect too much food.Maybe an uncle or friend can dress up like a Mummy to deliver the presents or you could make trails throughout the house to his gifts and make them out of different things like candy corn or those eyeball candies. Make a special tombstone with his name birthday etc as a souvenier.Cant wait to hear the other ideas.