R.M.
Hey A.,
I am a native of the Nashville/Antioch area. If you are having to drive to work to Vanderbilt, anywhere outside of the city is going to have traffic problems. If you can find something in the Green Hills area or West End then that would be a benefit but pricey. If you would prefer to "bear" the traffic then Hermitage or Mt. Juliet are nice choices. Good luck to you. I also have a family of three. My daughter is now 7 months and I feel the same as you do.