L.B.
Hi,
I moved from Miami to Ft Myers 3 years ago with my then 6 month old. I do like it better than in Miami for many reasons.
I enjoy more peace and quiet here, although it can be a bit boring at times as there are not as many things to do as in Miami, but that is expected being a smaller town.
I do like the gulf beaches better too, and the proximity of Naples and Venice, Sarasota, it makes for fun day trips.
I am personally partial to the neighborhoods near the river, but it is the older part of town and some people prefer new construction.
One good piece of advise is that when you look for a house or an apartment, be aware that there are many cases of chinesse dry wall, make SURE you don't get into those!
My kids are going to daycare so I still don't know much about the school district, so can't help with that.