ooh....well not sure where you live...so we don't know what situation you are in....what you like - 4 seasons?? what do you WANT to do?? DO you like hikes, mountain biking? swimming?? WHAT?? Do you want easy access to a QUALITY hospital or airport?
What are your politics? Do they influence you on where you would want to live??
If you are in Nebraska and want to move somewhere:
San Diego, California - AWESOME area - diverse in politics and people. Not really 4 seasons...but beautiful area...unemployment rate there is just under 5% (not sure if that is the U6 count or just the "simple" rate.....and if there are jobs for you or your husband...
Denver, Colorado - 4 seasons - A LOT to do and a healthy economy.
Idaho - I have friends that live there - Idaho Falls is a HIGH rate of Mormons. Great "cleared" area for work and OH MY GOD tons of outdoor stuff to do...
Atlanta is BEAUTIFUL!! Lots of choices in things to do.
There are a lot of places I would LOVE to live...Western South Dakota...oh heck - I truly enjoyed Sioux Falls, SD as well...winters are BRUTAL...
Eastern Wyoming - oh my God - God's country. Again - winters are BRUTAL. But I'd still move there...
Texas - Dallas and San Antonio interest me. Austin? I liked - but they say "keep is weird" they mean "keep it weird"..
Tell us what you WANT - what jobs you are looking - weather - religion - politics...
Mid-Atlantic area (Washington, DC, Maryland and Northern VA) nice area. EXPENSIVE in pockets and disgusting summers (humidity sucks - 60% or higher)..
I'd love to move back to Hawaii - but my husband hated it. Damn.
Why do I love Wyoming and South Dakota? You have pockets of people and LAND....4 seasons. For the most part? Conservative.
San Diego? Typically pleasant year round. There are expensive areas - Coronado, Laguna beach (which is a tad north - but still)...inland? Miramar, Escondido, Rancho Bernardo, Poway - hot summers), Ramona, Palomar nice areas. Politics? spread across the spectrum. Cost of Living? Medium to high.
Hawaii - I grew up there. I love the ocean breeze. Cost of living is VERY high. However, there's a LOT to do.
Boston is nice. EXPENSIVE and humid summers as well.
Never thought about Minnesota, Wisconsin or Michigan. Just like to visit. Not live.
Hope this helps.