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We strive for balance between all of it. Most days we get outside to play at least once and on nice days twice. They always get exercise twice a day either outside or with Wii/Kinect if they don't have other activities going on. They get to watch a few videos throughout the day (mostly when getting up in morning or after nap). My oldest is allowed to play IPod or IPad once a day. We do arts and crafts several times a week and free play is expected on days we don't go out. Movies are only if they are sick or they get up too early. We are selective on his choices for videos and mostly only allow education/positive ones but sometimes let him watch a video that is just for fun.