I have dry hair. I have fine hair, too. I used to get compliments on my hair. Now, I don't.
As the hormones change, hair gets frizzy and wavy. Some women, don't get hit with this "curse", but, I did.
I started taking biotin. I wash my hair every four days. The day I wash it, it looks like a frizz ball. I wear my hair up in a loose bun and sleep like that--- to help it look a tad better (The next day).
I do not use Colorsilk color, but, my friend started using it, and her hair is much less frizzy. She puts it on her roots first and then, carries it through. Her hair "drinks" it right up because it is that dry.
Have a licensed hairdresser take a look at your hair. Maybe s/he will have a suggestion.
I use coconut oil in the am and herbal essences naked conditioner when I wash.