J.W.
My 12 year old daughter has Aspergers, which really just describes the fact that she has difficulty reading social cues and putting herself in someone else's shoes. She is creative, bright, witty and beautiful. She goes to the Neurodevelopment Center in Providence to see a counselor just to help her understand the social stuff that she doesn't really care about.
The Aspergers Association of New England, aane.com, is the best resource because you can find tons of info as well as support groups, etc for adults with Asperger. I would suggest joining as soon as possible so that you can be part of their bulletin boards. They will also send you a packet of info tailored to your specific needs. Good luck!