MMR Shot---seeking Advice

Updated on August 14, 2009
M.O. asks from Plano, TX
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I am the mother of a 10 month old girl. My daughter has had all of her vaccinations, but I am apprehensive about giving her the MMR shot( which she will need soon). One reason is that I have no immunity to Rubella (in this vaccine) even after booster shots. I am trying to get pregnant right now and I am worried about her getting this "live" vaccine and the possible side effects associated with it. Is it possible to get the virus, even a mild version of it once she is vaccinated? Rubella is very dangerous to pregnant woman and I am one of the rare people who do not become immune after vaccines. I was thinking of waiting until she was 2 to give her th MMR shot. Any advice on this subject would be appreciated.

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So What Happened?

Thanks for the advice. I took my daughter for her 1 year shots yesterday, and decided to postpone the MMR until she is 2 years old. My doctor thankfully supported my decision ( she is not in daycare so that helps). In the end, I went with my "mommy gut" on this one. I figure God put it there for a reason : )

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S.T.

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Ask to have the MMR delayed. The doctor shouldn't have any problem. Many people have the MMR delayed for a few months to a few years.

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My son was 2 before he got the mmr shot and everything worked out fine. I was able to assess his development and allow his immunity to mature before he had such an intense shot and I feel like it was the right decision for me. My best advice for you is to not let anyone try to convince you of what you should do. Not your doctor, friends, family, etc. You know what's best for your family, so just go with your gut instinct. By the way, if you choose not to do the shot or to delay it and your doctor gives you trouble for it, try Dr. Baine in Frisco, she is very open to extended vaccine schedules and doesn't pressure you to do something you might not be comfortable with. Good Luck!

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L.C.

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Michelle,
You are the best mommy. It is so refreshing to hear someone without a child on the spectrum or a child affected, speak about the concerns of the vaccines. I am a mom who has a child that was vaccine injured. And believe me, talking to your doctor will do NOTHING! You are smart to delay the shots. There are some doctors who can seperate the MMR but from what I hear lately the manufacturer is not doing that anymore. There is a website that will help you that shows a safer vaccine schedule. www.generationrescue.org
Also The Vaccine Book by Dr. Sears.
Always listen to your gut, even over a doctor! I wish I did! You are an amazing mom and she is lucky to have you.
Laudie

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I would also recommend the Dr Sear's book. It lays out all the ingredients of the vaccines, all the pros and cons, and all the risks. That being said - I changed pediatricians after my doctor blew off my concerns (we chose to wait on the MMR). Do whatever you think is right for YOUR child - you're the one who knows her best - if your gut is saying to wait - I would wait. And yes - talk to he and your doctors - hopefully they will listen to your concerns and give you good feedback - just don't let anyone talk you into doing anything that you don't think is right for your child.

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I would wait. They get so many vaccinations by the age of one already. I would talk to a doctor that can take into account your situation.

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T.T.

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It's ok to delay. Risk for your daughter is very small but greater for you. Dr Sears Vaccine Book covers pros and cons.

Supposedly in 2010 separate vaccines should be available rather than the triple threat MMR.

If your doctor hassles you, switch to Dr Deborah Bain in Frisco or Dr Nina Cahan in Coppell or someone vaccine-friendly (ok with waived or delayed vaccination). This is too important to let anyone bully you. I was with my daughter and so far she's been fine. I've been more careful with my son but it's probably age and more knowledge that gives me confidence.

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I would get the shot. Kids can die if they get Rubella.
Consult with your Dr. if you have further concerns.

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There are only about 20 reported cases of rubella in The United States per year. Our children are still vaccinated to protect pregnant women from getting it because it can cause birth defects to their fetus, especially in the first trimester. The disease is not serious to children. The chances of your daughter getting rubella are extremely slim. I would delay the vaccine until she is older and her immune system is more developed even if you weren't trying to get pregnant! Good luck!

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L.S.

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Talk to your Dr about your concerns. I think that will help you weigh your decision a lot better.

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