C.,
Congratulations on the coming of your little one! And for wanting to breastfeed! A lot of women have one challenge or another with breastfeeding, but it is well worth any and all effort.
I will echo the La Leche League advice. I think the closest meeting to you is going to be in McAllen...but I could be wrong...Here is a link listing all the towns in Texas where meetings are held.
http://www.llli.org//Web/Texas.html
Meetings are held monthly and kids are welcome. I have been attending a meeting for years now. I have no current challenges or "burning questions" but I still find it to my advantage to attend. It is a great group of women and I find it very encouraging to be around others who are so positive (and helpful!) when it comes to breastfeeding.
If you have not already read "The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding" I would recommend doing so. The 7th Revised Edition is the newest one. It is a book put out by La Leche League and contains a wealth of information, including proper latch technique. Improper latch is the number one culprit when it comes to sore nipples and discomfort. Amazon.com has it for about $12, but you could likely find it at your local Barnes and Noble or Borders.
The LLL website has some good resources.
http://www.llli.org/resources.html?m=0
One last plug for LLL -- phone consults are FREE! The leaders are not medical personnel, but they have lots of bf-ing experience and can help you troubleshoot issues and give you tips on what to change (if anything).
Also, I want to say that if you are going to continue being a SAHM, I really don't think you're going to need a pump of any kind. Honest. I am a SAHM of two and and have used my pump only a few times. If you are returning to work, it's a different matter...but if you are going to stay at home, my 2cts would be to not sweat it.
I know this was lengthy, but I hope that this contains some helpful information for you. If you have any questions for me, please don't hesitate to email me.
K., mama to
Catherine, 5y
Samuel, 2y
EDD 9/23