M.M.
i am a christian who has recently had the pleasure to meet some wiccans. u need to show ur little girls both ways, like u said show her there is more than one path and let her choice when she is old enough to do so for herself. growing up i would of never been able to be friends with wiccans because to my world they were just witches which in turn is the devil as i've grown up and have had the opportunity to meet and become friends with some they are anything but. so show her both and tell ur mom nicely to but out and that this is ur child and she already a chance with hers.