Hi J.,
Here are a couple suggestions ..
While your boys are at practice, walk the field. This is a perfect opportunity! Walking is SO good for you, and you're already there - so no excuse not to!
Eating like a rabbit .. to have a healthy body, you have to feed it healthy food. You pretty much have to remove all processed foods from your diet. Sure! They taste good and are easy .. but they're terrible for your body. And you'll be setting a good example for your children that could help them live long and healthy lives, what mother doesn't want that :)
I don't eat anything fried, anything made from white flour, I limit my sugar intake (but I do give in to the siren call of the chocolate bar;) I eat A LOT of veggies, lots of fruit, chicken, turkey burgers ..
Here is how my day goes: coffee and a bananna with peanut butter for breakfast, a BIG salad for lunch (with baby carrots, kidney & black beans, a few green olives, spinach, a hard boiled egg, a tomato or 2. The filler is usually the Spring Mix from the grocery store, all sorts of beautiful, colorful lettuce and I will plop a bit of cottage cheese on top and use my Balsamic breeze Salad Spritzer or just plain old ranch dressing - not low fat or anything. Very filling, very delicious, and very healthy! PLus you're not all weighted down like you would be if you had a cheese burger or something heavy and greasy) and dinner is usually a meat and 2 types of veggies. Last night we had Hot Italian turkey sausages, steamed green beans with real butter and a little garlic and mac'n'cheese (for my son ;) I had a salad. We use a lot of organic canned green beans, corn and frozen broccoli - check out the freezer section at your grocer, they have some really fun mixed vegatable bags, just steer clear of anything that has a sause with it. I keep the cabinets and freezer FULLY stocked.
And my last bit .. I think you should try to lose weight on your own, if you have a real plan and stick to it, you WILL begin to lose. Diet pills .. they would be great if you could take them forever because that's what you would need to do to keep the weight they cause you to lose off. As soon as you stop taking the supplement .. right back to where you started. Losing weight and becoming healthy is about changing your lifesyle.
I was a size 15-17 and am now a 7 .. been at my current weight for 5 years :)
Best of luck to you!