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For a First birthday it is usually best to have a party at home. Inviting family and friends over to either your home or maybe a family members house can always be fun, while the kids just run around the house playing with eachother and giving the adults time to socialize while collectively watching the litle ones. One major reason for this is that this is (usually) the first time your little one will eat cake on His/Her own. This is a really messy but fun event for them. You are going to want to plan for an extra outfit for after cake, and a bath immediately after as well. My son had green frosting in his hair, ears, diaper (don't know how) etc... He and I excused ourselves when he was done, and went upstairs for a quick wash before rejoining the festivities. Parties can also be a bit overwhelming for little ones. Being around that many faces is very stimulating, and you may find that providing them with the comforts of home make them much more comfortable...and lets face it, this party is all about them. It's also cheaper. We went to Costco and bought sandwich trays, relish trays, chips and dip, and soda for next to nothing, for a party of 40 of our closest family and friends. The only thing I had to make was the Cake, and I loved being able to really make it creative because there was nothing else to worry about. Paper plates and plastic silverware and paper table cloths make for really easy clean up too. Congrats and have fun!