When my daughter turned 4 last year her favorite gifts included:
- a gift bag that contained a box of 10 crayola paints (in the plastic jars), a package of various size/types of paint brushes or paint sponges, and some spongy stamps to paint and stamp design onto paper. All of that was from Michaels.
- a toy purse with items to go into it
- a set of stickers, hair bows, tattoos, crayons, etc
- baby Cinderella
- dress up princess outfit with jewels
- a ladybug with a shell that is cut out with a light to make the constellations on the ceiling (They have them in the baby area or sell a version on television or on line called wish animals or some such thing)
Basically, anything related to arts/crafts or anything related to nail polish/lip gloss or dress up is a hit. She also received no less than 25 containers of playdough in various play sets. She enjoyed those for a bit, but overall the play value did not last long. I think I'd leave playdough for school and not choose that. She has also enjoyed the game "Elefun" and "Hungry Hippo".