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~Get some bur-lap sacks and have potato sack races.
~Have them tie legs together and do 2-legged races.
~Have small balloons and have balloon tosses. The last pair standing wins.
~Have some puzzles where the kids work with the adults to figure out like
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means read between the lines. Both adults and kids love these and they can work together.
~Do find your relative Bingo and both kids and adults play. In the boxes have "Someone who ate fish for dinner last night. In another box, find someone that has swam naked.... " These are always fun because the kids feel they find out things about the adults and the adults and kids work together.
~Another both can do is form teams and have everyone have big serving spoons. They scoop up an egg, walk 25 feet and transfer the egg to the spoon of the next person. Then that person walks and transfer the egg without dropping to the next. Then the final person has to place it on a ledge, chair or something without dropping it.The first one to complete wins.
~Make sure you have a "Soul Train" dance line. All like to watch others dance.
~Have an ole school v/s modern dance off. Have the kids come in the circle and dance. They did point to an adult and have them come in the center and dance after them. Both do dances from their era. This is not a win loose thing, but soooo much fun.
~Have a few arts and crafts set up for the kids. They can make bird feeders or beaded jewelry (string and beads). Order from a place like Oriental Trading some of those cardboard frames, also found at many dollar stores and let the kids decorate them.
~Pack a couple of Frisbees, they are cheap and easy to pack.
~Ball pitches. Mark with tape a bulls eye and have people toss balls (You can get little plastic ones from the dollar store) to the bulls-eye. Who ever comes closer wins.
I hope this helps and will come back to edit the answer and add if I think of any others. BTW.... I would get all of the items before you leave and mail them in a box to one of the relatives who lives where the reunion is going to be. I would not carry it all with me. The stuff that I mention can all fit in a flate rate priority mailing box and therefore will not cost much. Good Luck and have fun.