L.,
My name is A. Toft and I was diagnosed at a very young age with Severe Rheumatoid Arthritus. It was horribly painful, there were days where my mom actaully had to put my shoes on for me. I would cry because of having to go to schoool, and it was hard because my joints in my hands and feet started to become deformed.
I'm now almost 27, and my Arthritus has never been doing better, you would actaully never know that I had it without looking at my joints. My blood work early on came back normal as well, ( but 4 months later they did find it was JRA). I talk with many groups of people that have kids with JRA, ( as they considered even at the age of 14 when I was diagnosed it was still under the category of severe JRA).
All I can tell you is there is so much light at the end of the tunnel if this is what your son ends up having. If you have not already I would have him see a specialist in RA as they can really tell more then anyone would be able to, just by the way they will move his knees, and joints in general. If your son does have JRA, ( which I will keep in my prayers that he does not:)) there are wonderful books out there that really helped myself and mom when I was younger, ( and even now that I'm older). Although there is no cure to Autoimmune Diseases, I have learned throughout the course of having Severe RA, that there is so much you can do!
I'm a marathon runner now, I can do anything anyone else would be able to do, by just the simple things that I changed in my lifestyle. I personally don't have to take anything my RA, as I have read so many wonderful books on diet, and exercise as well as water! It's amazing how severe mine is and looks, and how amazing that all of the small things that I have done to be able to stay off of medication. I hope that it is just growing pains for you 4yr old, but if you would like more advice on the books I have found for young kids, and adults with Autoimmune diseases and espeically books on ( a great book to really try to tell if your child has JRA), and some of the signs you can tell yourself let me know!
Also, since your somewhat in the same area, I would be more then happy to refer you to a wonderful kids Rheumatologist if you have not already seen one, and or found one! Group support for JRA for moms and RA in general is so helpful, and if you ever need anything, ( after having this for over 10 years, I would be more then happy to share). I'm pain free, and the doctors always shake there head as if I'm a walking miricle, but really it's all in what you learn about the disease, and how to control it if you find that's what it is. Sorry for the long one but I feel so obligated to share informatioin when anyone brings up JRA and or RA, but I do hope this helps you, ( and you can also feel free to email me at) ____@____.com or ____@____.com Best of Luck to you and your 4yr old! If you ever want to get together let me know. Again, it's great to have support and people that have lived it, and our still living with it to talk with. Love, A. Toft