well, i grew up with my family hiking out to the woods and getting a cedar - not pine, not fir - cedar tree, and hauling it into the house. i'm not anti-real tree, i'm not even really anti-cedar tree (they are free! and my mom still does it, and there is a lot of nostalgia involved) but it's not for me. i LOVE my fake prelit tree that we got on clearance (regularly $200, marked down to like $50) the day after christmas one year. LOVE IT. and last year i also hit the clearance rack (we'd had our new tree several years but were still using old mishmash of decorations, and bulbs, like you describe) and i got all blue bulbs and garland. IT IS GORGEOUS!! i have always had my silver star which i LOVE, but i tell you what - for years i had a dang GOLD tree skirt because every time i would go to buy a silver one i was appalled at the crappy quality and the ridiculous prices. but i have all blue and silver now and I LOVE LOVE LOVE it. and of course, our collection of personal ornaments.
when i put it up this weekend, i did everything but the personal ones, because my son was visiting grandma and i wasn't going to do the personal ornaments until he came home, and my husband was so funny. he stopped, looked at the tree, and said, "babe...it looks good. REALLY really good. but...it's really starting to look like a magazine." and he was so down about it...lol. the "girlie" in me practically giggled in delight. this year is our first with a really well-put-together tree and i am in heaven. we have never had a lot of money to spend on "extras" like christmas decorations, and i always made myself ok with that...but i am just over the moon with how good everything looks this year.
somehow my hubby got it together with the christmas lights too...they are the best we've ever had (he has always done just a "it's good enough" job...and many years i was a little embarrassed lol...but that was his domain...!) he did an amazing job with them this year.
Merry Christmas! :)