my daughter and i are also incompatible blood types, her jaundice was very bad as well. there is jaundice and then there is jaundice, you know? some of them are well beyond putting them in the window. her level was over 15 in under 5 hours from birth, the blood transfer kit was already out. luckily she leveled off just under the cut-off point, i think it was 17. they wouldnt let me breastfeed her at all, said the enzymes in my milk would make the jaundice worse, plus since my milk was just starting to come in, there just wasnt enough of it yet to flush out the bilirubin. she was big, over 9 lbs, i think that had something to do with it too, needed more volume.... ironically, she was the only one of my 3 kids that had latched on immediately after delivery, i was sooooo thrilled.... sigh..... then they took her to clean her up and just never brought her back. ugh i could cry right now remembering how i felt as it became more and more clear to me that something was wrong....
anyway, i pumped every 2-3 hours around the clock to get my milk in asap, and we gave her as much formula as we could get into her while she stayed under the lights. it was so upsetting, but what can you do? i had all my cute little signs ready for her tank "NO formula, NO pacifiers please, BREASTFEEDING only"... etc.... lol,,, anyway, i saved all the milk, of course, and they released her from the nicu after 5 days and let me nurse. and also ironically, she was the only one of my 3 that again, latched right on and we never looked back, never had to give her formula after that, she was a champ, and we never had one single problem breastfeeding, she was almost 2 when we reluctantly stopped because i was pregnant again. my point being that it will be ok :) just get her healthy and home and it will all be good. congrats and good luck...
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my daughter and i are also incompatible blood types, her jaundice was very bad as well. there is jaundice and then there is jaundice, you know? some of them are well beyond putting them in the window. her level was over 15 in under 5 hours from birth, the blood transfer kit was already out. luckily she leveled off just under the cut-off point, i think it was 17. they wouldnt let me breastfeed her at all, said the enzymes in my milk would make the jaundice worse, plus since my milk was just starting to come in, there just wasnt enough of it yet to flush out the bilirubin. she was big, over 9 lbs, i think that had something to do with it too, needed more volume.... ironically, she was the only one of my 3 kids that had latched on immediately after delivery, i was sooooo thrilled.... sigh..... then they took her to clean her up and just never brought her back. ugh i could cry right now remembering how i felt as it became more and more clear to me that something was wrong....
anyway, i pumped every 2-3 hours around the clock to get my milk in asap, and we gave her as much formula as we could get into her while she stayed under the lights. it was so upsetting, but what can you do? i had all my cute little signs ready for her tank "NO formula, NO pacifiers please, BREASTFEEDING only"... etc.... lol,,, anyway, i saved all the milk, of course, and they released her from the nicu after 5 days and let me nurse. and also ironically, she was the only one of my 3 that again, latched right on and we never looked back, never had to give her formula after that, she was a champ, and we never had one single problem breastfeeding, she was almost 2 when we reluctantly stopped because i was pregnant again. my point being that it will be ok :) just get her healthy and home and it will all be good. congrats and good luck...