Hi H.. What a vast of info you got!
This is a hard decision, and not one that is easy to make when some say vaccinate and other say not to.
It seems to me some people have a political agenda or use scare tactics.
I struggled with this, and as many others have done - vaccinated, but not all vaccines and on a much broader schedule.
The reasons I chose to vaccinate at all were because of life experiences. You think these things only happen to 'other people' but they happened to people in my life.
My own grandmother caught the measles as a child (when there was no vaccine), got very sick, got a hole in heart, and has been on medication for life.
My best friend's aunt was not vaccinated, got polio (YES, polio) and is in a wheelchair.
My next door neighbor has a child with leukemia and cannot be vaccinated - and this causes complications with school, daycare, playgroups, etc, etc.
My own child's daycare has kids who were not vaccinated and brought chicken pox to the daycare, spread it to others who were not vaccinated, who then gave it to parents who never had chicken pox, including a grandmother who ended up with shingles and in the hospital. Thank God it was only chicken pox and not something far worse.
As far as God not wanting our little one's to have such injections, well our air is impure, our water, our food, etc, etc. I think God wants us to protect one another.
Despite this, I was still skeptical, still am, but know vaccines are important, so decided to skip a few, and do the others are my own schedule. I think choosing not to vaccinate at all is far riskier than the other way around, but that is my opinion. Many of us could argue that point for days.
Ask yourself, do you want your child exposed to others who are not vaccinated? Do you want your child to get chicken pox? Are there allergies at all in your families? Is abc vaccine an important one to you, while xyz is not? Get the info you need to be comfortable, not scared into doing it one way or the other. Get FACTS, no agendas. The Dr. Sears book is an excellent one.
So do ask your pediatrician LOTS of questions. Get the ingredients lists, go over any allergies in the family, etc, etc - and - most of all - GOOD luck!!
Enjoy the birth of your new baby and your new life to come - every precious second of it!