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I totally understand where you are coming from. There should be an instruction manual on these types of things! At the 6 month visit with the doctor I asked her for a menu. So she gave me this: "Your infant should be feeding 3 (occassionally 4) times per day...Formua maxium of 24-32oz and average 12-18oz per day...a solid food schedule includes cereal and fruit for breakfast, a vegetable and fruit for lunch, and the same for dinner..." Here are some "NO foods" for your baby's age: "No corn, fish, peanut butter, whole wheat, citrus, tomato, egg white, dairy or honey, or meat-vegetable-noodle combinations." "You can mix single foods together on the same plate but now you need to introduce adult table food. Use the rule of thumb: If you can squish it between your two fingers, your baby can gum it."
OK, so the way that I applied that to my baby who is now 7 months and 3 days, is 6-7oz bottle with cereal 3 times a day. 1 "Stage 2" jar per meal. Fruit at breakfast, vegetable for lunch, and combination (ie chicken and apples) for dinner. I feed her the bottle first so she gets all the vitamins, then I feed her the jar within 5-45min's later. I don't have any other kids, so it is just easier for me to give her baby food instead of adult food. My daughter seems satisfied after eatting that amount, so I think for now that is what I will stick with.
I'm sure you will figure out what is best for your baby! Sounds like your baby is healthy, and really that is all that matters; even if that means you are not feeding him like everyone else!
It's funny how it seems like this would be so simple to figure out, but until you're in that situation you don't realize how stressful it can be! :) Best Wishes