*LEARN SELF DRESS/HYGIENE (child learns buttoning, zipping, choosing clothes, brushing teeth, etc.)
*BREAKFAST
*CLEAN UP
*BATHROOM BREAK
*FREE PLAY
*(At 10 am, my family starts w/BIBLE STUDY and character development): being quiet when someone is talking, manners, importance of obeying parents, etiquette, honesty, family rules of conduct, sharing, behavior, friendship, kindness, etc.)
*ABCs/PHONICS/LANGUAGE ARTS (I like A Beka series for 4-5 year old because it's so repetitive; however, it's not great if your child hates seatwork. (daily)
*LET'S EXPLORE [SCIENCE (nature, planets, animal habitats, trip to farm, birds, water play or sand, five senses, nutrition, parts of the body, anything he/she can explore, etc.) or HISTORY or SOCIAL STUDIES (community helpers, safety, careers, historical figures, etc.), MUSIC, and FOREIGN LANGUAGE APPRECIATION--these can change daily (I love the Baby Einstein series for music). But, you can teach new songs as well as different instruments, attend musicals, listen to classical music, etc. I like variety, so one day is SCIENCE, one day MUSIC, etc. I stick with topics throughout the month or until my 4-year-old can repeat what she's learned.]
*ART/CRAFT (theme around the season, color identification, scissors, paste/glue) I didn't realize that these activities can strengthen your child's hand muscle by using playdough, drawing circles with markers and crayons, use shaving cream to trace letters, and letter magnets. I like using the letter magnets when they grow weaker and playing in the playdough with them. I've also made playdough from scratch (Science) and had preschooler mix food color into the batch. Also, help child learn to use scissors and glue at this stage. Coloring is also age-appropriate. It's normal to start with light strokes, then scribbles, then curly ques, etc. They have to learn to color in the lines, and then they start to imitate what they see by using different colors. I also like using dot-paint, which you can get from an educational store.)
CLEAN UP
FREE TIME
SNACK
BATHROOM
NUMBER RECOGNITION (count to 100, recognize them)
FREE PLAY (outdoors if weather permits)
CLEAN UP
LUNCH
STORYTIME
BATHROOM BREAK
NAP or QUIET TIME (for mom to recover)
BATHROOM BREAK
SNACK
I did not put times beside any of these suggestions. Preschoolers have very short attention spans. At least my preschooler does. Most preschools only operate for 3 hours with formal instruction, even if they have before and after care. At that time, they do more creative things, like dance, gymnastics, languages, motor skill development (bike riding, skating) whatever can fill up the time until the parents pick them up. So, do not make this rigid. I believe it should be fun for everyone.
Throw in maybe one or two fieldtrips to the park, library, museum, zoo, games (Uno is great to teach color and number patterns, but my 4-yr.old is just getting the hang of it. Cranium has great games for preschoolers, like Cariboo and Hullabaloo. Old favorites like Candyland and Chutes and Ladders are good for rainy days) and maybe one playdate monthly with another mom (to reinforce those social skills) and you should have a great preschool program that nourishes you as well as your children. For variety, most museums offer free or lowcost classes for preschoolers! All libraries and most bookstores have free storytime for preschoolers. Nature Centers also have preschool programs for as little as $1 or $2. Consider that your breaktime, though sometimes it's just as tough getting the babies packed for a fieldtrip.
Make sure you stop whatever schedule you adopt about 1-2 hours before Dad comes home to straighten house, begin dinner, and put your feet up. You might even set up this schedule for 3-4 days per week and plan day 5 for administrative tasks, like household accounting, scheduling drs appts., laundry, groceries, etc. Let sibling read (or pretend to read) to the baby, play peekaboo, dangle soft toys in front of the baby and that will help build their bond. Pace yourself to avoid burnout. Maybe put the children down for the night at 7 pm and take an extra hour to do something you enjoy.
You can also search online for Maryland, Virginia and DCs scope and sequence for preschool literacy. Hope this was helpful. Enjoy your family!