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ETA: To get the furniture you want? Go to your local U-Haul and rent a truck for 2 hours. That's what we did when we were replacing furniture in my girlfriend's house that caught fire...or borrow a truck from a friend. Best bet is to rent a truck!!!
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I have been using Craigslist for several years - like 4 or 5. I've had people in my home (I'm kind of an imposing person so people usually don't mess with me!! LOL!!) and haven't had a problem.
The ONLY problem I have had was someone trying to scam me - I had a piece of jewelry listed - they wanted me to ship it to them and pay via Paypal...I got a "notification" from Paypal stating the funds were ready and would transfer upon mailing/shipping confirmation....yeah...right...Paypal doesn't hold funds like that...
I can understand your husband not wanting anyone in the house. What you CAN do is put the pieces in the garage (if you have one). BEFORE you list it - take REALLY GOOD PICTURES and measurements...and then take it apart (state in posting that it is broken down for easy pick up) and have it in a central location in the house.
Just to be safe....
NEVER be alone when someone from craigslist comes to pick something up.
Send an e-mail to someone you trust - giving the name and phone number of the person who is coming to the house.
IF YOU ARE GOING TO SOMEONE'S HOUSE:
* NEVER go alone.
* Give the name, address and phone number of the location you are going. Doesn't matter if you go alone or not.
If you lived closer - i would be interested in buying the convertible crib as it makes out to a double/full sized headboard/footboard, yes??? See you could already have it sold!! LOL!!!
Never act afraid. Look people in the eye. Be aware of your surroundings. Do NOT panic.
GOOD LUCK!!