Hi A....I have - I have three words for you about the bottle - "take it away". Seriously, take all the bottles out of cabinets, drawers, etc and get rid of them or pack them away if you're planning on having another somewhere where your son can't see them. When both my boys turned 1, the bottles went away. They both fussed a little, but after checking with my pediat. he said that they'll drink when they're thirsty and to stick to my method of cold turkey. You may have a couple of rough days, but you know he's able to drink from a sippy cup so he's not going to hold out too long. Don't offer anything except milk until he accepts it, then reintroduce the others. I can't help with the pacifier, never used one. Good luck - try to stay strong I know it's tough to see the little cuties upset, but before you know it you won't be washing bottles anymore!